When do you know your being too nice? When what your doing is out of your way, for someone who does not appreciate or value it. When you are damaging relationships and your own life is put on hold and you may be doing everything you can to please this kind of not-so-nice person. It may be a complete stranger from anything in between to people you may have known you whole life. But when those people who step on you (when it's convenient for them) and you have to spend all of your energy to try pleasing them - they will simply never be happy no matter how you bend over backwards.
Should I Still Be Nice? It is good to be nice most the time, as common courtesy and especially for Business ♦♥♦ Being Nice is Good!
Praise yourself for being a Good Person!
Solution? Take a moment before responding and Stop the Too Nice Cycle ♦♥♦ When you take some time to think what you are really devoting to before you say the Automatic "Yes" you will be much happier with being true to yourself. Enjoy YOUR Life and Relationships Much More! Say "No" in whatever way works, if the nice way does not work then say the stiff "No".
Do not say "sorry" later on for standing up for yourself. The Too Nice cycle will most likely begin again if you do so!
Respect yourself by Standing up for Yourself!
